Dating in Your Circle

Me and my homies (as well as a lot of other homies out there across the world) have a code known as the 'Homies Code.' There are many variations but this one pertains to the rule that Thou Shall Not Date a homie's ex. These type of things are more prevalent in co-ed circles of friends. Everybody knows each other because they spend so much time with each other. Of course in this game of love and war, someone has to be attractive to another person in the circle and that alone causes complications as well. He's jocking her. She is whatever. He makes the move. They get together. First on the low, then made public. He got caught slippin. She gets sad. People take sides. She goes for the other guy. It goes on and on, but in relationships that started with people in the same circle, something very important is forgotten - the idea that it should only be between the two people, and that includes the drama between them as well.

The minute that a third person gets directly involved, thats when the circle gets disrupted. Gossip gets passed around like a joint, everybody gonna take a hit and rumors get started. Unfortunately, this is to be expected. Does that make dating in your circle wrong? Not really. Why? Because it is not the circle that makes the relationship, but the commitment and devotion that the two people have for each other that got them together in the first place. Your friends could be the support circle as much as they could also be the lynch mob. As Akon sings, people should respect boundaries. As much as we feel much grief when someone in the relationship is heartbroken, we also must come to terms with the fact that they also make the final decision to go on with or leave the relationship.

Now going back to the homies code, lets put this scenario. Guy #1 and Gal #1 broke up. Then Gal #2 steps up to replace Gal #1 for Guy #1. What now? There are always exceptions to the rule. Frankly, for a person like me, I am a firm believer of no rules, but everyone must accept responsibility for their actions. Gal #2 better know what she is getting herself into, including the possibility of scarring a friendship with Gal #1 and other friends in the circle. The same goes for Guy #1. Even if there is no drama, people will be talking, but as long as Guy #1 and Gal #2 put their relationship as the first priority, even in front of the circle, they should be fine, and everybody gotta mind their own business. While there are different conditions for the matter, the result is always the same and if the situations are truly fucked up, then leave the rest to karma.

Friends should have each other's back but lets face it -when feelings are involved, everybody gets caught in the middle. This is why a lot of people date outside their circle, but that is a lot more difficult because you'd have to do a long process of filtering and getting to know a stranger. Dating in this city of Angels especially, you have to play the game which is known to burnt those who lost from it. The circle on the other hand halves the time used for someone getting to know another since they're friends already.

Everybody in a circle has at least one crush within and unfortunately with people like me, I have a lot of attractive female friends whom I share good chemistry with (I know I'd be dead if I said I'm tight with fat and ugly people; lol) Fortunately this city is huge and being blessed with having multiple circles of friends ease the tensions and fears of falling for the wrong friend. In a perfect world, I can be like Hugh Hefner and Dennis Hof and have a different soulmate when the season changes but ultimately there will be that "one." She doesn't necesarrily have to be in my circle, but ALL my circles will have to approve of her. ;-)

I cant make this up

The name is changed to protect the innocent.

2dizz (3:43:44 PM): so it's fall (football season)
2dizz (3:44:10 PM): we just won a big game, can't recall if it was against rivals or to get into the playoffs
2dizz (3:44:27 PM): that's neither her nor there
2dizz (3:45:08 PM): the important thing it was an important game and and afterwards one of the kids used there barn to host a party
2dizz (3:46:05 PM): well it was like 100+ kids grades 8 - 12
2dizz (3:46:34 PM): anyways there was a girl there, name escapes me at the momment but she had a reputation for being 'easy'
2dizz (3:46:48 PM): she wasn't ugly, but she wasn't a dime either
2dizz (3:47:14 PM): so the party is going late and this bitch is just putting the drinks away
2dizz (3:47:28 PM): I mean it's scary how much she was drinking
2dizz (3:47:50 PM): so the drunker she gets the more erotic on the dance floor she gets
2dizz (3:48:17 PM): to the point she starts giving one cat skull on the floor in the middle of everyone
2dizz (3:48:58 PM): so she eventually finds herself in the corner being fingered by another cat
2dizz (3:49:30 PM): this bitch must goes into heat cause next thing you know it's like Amtrak
2dizz (3:50:12 PM): 5-10 cats are over there now, fingering at first then it's upgraded to fucking
2dizz (3:50:34 PM): but this chick can't get enough
2dizz (3:51:22 PM): I can only assume dude wasn't dicking right or her pussy was stretched cause she clowned this one cats about him not fucking right
2dizz (3:51:36 PM): and that she couldn't feel his little dick
2dizz (3:52:02 PM): so dude grabs a ho, and uses the handle on this chick
2dizz (3:52:38 PM): he's not trying to kill the bitch so he only sticks in like 8 - 12 inches of the handle
2dizz (3:52:43 PM): yes garden tool
2dizz (3:53:06 PM): it could have been more but it wasn't like I had a ruler on hand
2dizz (3:53:43 PM): so now this bitch is on the floor being fucked by a ho and she's moaning and is really into it
2dizz (3:54:25 PM): so a couple of the guys were finish fucking or they got there second wind and took the chick to the back of the barn
2dizz (3:54:29 PM): outside
2dizz (3:54:45 PM): and they are just going to town
2dizz (3:55:06 PM): and for whatever reason one of the guys bring the horse over
2dizz (3:55:26 PM): and it turns into one of the things when you watch like
2dizz (3:55:36 PM): 'this cannot possibly be happening'
2dizz (3:56:00 PM): sure enough she started jerking the horse off
2dizz (3:56:33 PM): bent over under the horse in front of his member
2dizz (3:57:04 PM): one of the dudes steered the horse wang to her pussy and she began grinding the horse
2dizz (3:57:55 PM): I didn't/couldn't see her finish because some of the 12th graders and football players started crowding around and frankly I was getting sick
2dizz (3:57:59 PM): watching
2dizz (3:58:41 PM): but I saw the horse enter her and her fuck for about a minute or so and went back inside the party
2dizz (3:59:23 PM): the next day I heard from other football players who watched the whole thing she fucked the horse til he squirted in her face
2dizz (3:59:41 PM): so I only assume she gave it head, but I saw her get fucked
2dizz (3:59:48 PM): dick in vagina
2dizz (4:00:14 PM): also the dude before the team took her outside put the ho in her ass
2dizz (4:00:31 PM): let's just say monday people were talking
2dizz (4:01:26 PM): everytime I saw that chick I was like man 'please, I don't ever want to be that drunk'

Never Hate the Player...

Mutual Attraction + Faith = Relationship

.. and whoever gets hurt should claim responsibility for overstepping the bounds of logic to make the equation work...

This Had me on the Floor Dying

Weekend Survey

You Have A Type A- Personality

You are one of the most balanced people around Motivated and focused, you are good at getting what you want You rule at success, but success doesn't rule you. When it's playtime, you really know how to kick back Whether it's hanging out with friends or doing something you love! You live life to the fullest - incorporating the best of both worlds

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Rain

Listening to rain drops makes me sleepy.

Shameless Plug For Ratings

*sigh* do any of these people play video games? Eh, whatever...

Random Music Video Tuesday

Bobby Brown before the coke, prepubescent... Classic, and yet there's more of Mr. Brown if I feel like putting on an old school New Edition video.

A Revelation

I just realized something:

There are no rules in life, but there are consequences for your actions, and lack of actions.

Passing Up Time

I haven't been this broke in a while. I still gotta get my check to my brother and I have till the first of the month to yet pay more bills. I did say that Ill be M.I.A. this month, but I kinda broke it when my homegirl from Norcal came down to visit. Good thing she's a light drinker, saved me 40 bucks ;-)

So for now, I do have things to keep me occupied, including:

-Finishing this neverending Wedding Video
- Starting on this Debutante video that I filmed at the end of the month last month
-Doubling my rank for Call of Duty 4
- Watching Death Note
- Writing a couple chapters of my upcoming manga to send to my artist homie
- Making this blog look all pretty like how my Xanga was

I'm also going to make an attempt to stay away from myspace because Im simply on that shit too damn much. Alrighties... 4 more minutes till this rendering is finished.

My Umpteenth Blog

My old Xanga felt like an ex girlfriend, one of those ex girlfriends who got you in trouble but you did not care because you were with someone. I was faithful to it, updating pretty frequently and unloading my thoughts and emotions which translated into rants. Like my past relationships, I got bored with it and eventually let it go. It stopped being exciting to blog anymore. I started a newer blog at blog.com, but instead of a random rant of myself, its a rant of what I see on the outside. That didn't last long. I also had a livejournal that no one knew and once again, I neglected it.

I soon realized I shouldn't be blogging for anyone else but myself. If I have stuff to say about something, someone, or somewhere, I'll lay it out the line whether or not it makes sense. So, without further ado, ta da.. *crickets chirp*

Here is the reemergence of FASHIGGITY!